A Letter to the Person I’m Becoming

Hello there, Future Me,

It’s your past self, writing to you from a beautiful day in Nerja, Spain, in August 2025. I’m sitting here, taking in the view, and my mind is full of thoughts about you. I don’t know exactly where you are or who you’re with, but I’m filled with a mix of curiosity and hope for the life you’re leading.

This letter isn’t about telling you what to do. Instead, think of it as a compass. I’m writing down the intentions and values that are important to me right now, in the hope that they still resonate with you. I want to give you a moment to pause, to reflect on the journey, and to remember the dreams that we held dear.

My Hopes and Intentions for You

As I look ahead, I’m setting a few clear goals and intentions for you. They’re not deadlines, but rather anchors to keep you grounded and moving forward with purpose.

Creative Fulfillment: I hope you’re still making time for the things that spark your creativity. Whether it’s writing, painting, or simply finding a new way to solve a problem, I want you to continue nurturing that part of yourself. Don’t let the noise of daily life drown out that quiet, creative voice. I hope you’ve completed some of those projects that are just ideas in my head right now.

Joyful Presence: I intend for you to be more present in the moment. I hope you’ve learned to put down your phone and fully immerse yourself in a conversation, a meal, or the simple pleasure of a quiet morning. I want you to truly feel the joy in small moments, not just rush past them on your way to the next thing.

Courage to Change: Life is about growth and adaptation. I hope you’ve had the courage to let go of things that no longer serve you, whether they are habits, expectations, or even relationships. My intention for you is to embrace change with a sense of adventure, knowing that it’s a fundamental part of becoming a better, truer version of yourself.

Meaningful Connections: I hope you’ve invested time and energy into the people who matter most. I want you to have deep, authentic connections built on mutual respect and love. Remember that the quality of your relationships is one of the most important measures of a well-lived life. I’m hoping you’ve made new friends and strengthened the old bonds.

A Reminder to Reflect and Be Aware

This letter is also an opportunity for you to reflect. When you read this, take a moment to consider where you started. Think about the challenges you’ve overcome and the lessons you’ve learned. Be grateful for the journey, with all its ups and downs.

Are the core values we hold today—integrity, kindness, and perseverance—still guiding your decisions? Is the person you are now someone you’re proud of? I hope the answer is a resounding yes. I hope you’ve been able to look back and see how every choice, every stumble, and every triumph has led you to a place of greater understanding and self-awareness.

Don’t forget to give yourself credit. You are a product of your past, and everything you’ve experienced has shaped you into the person you are today. Be kind to yourself, always.

Looking to the Future

Future Me, please know that I’m cheering for you from the past. I trust that you have made smart, brave, and compassionate choices. I believe in your ability to handle whatever comes your way.

Keep learning, keep growing, and keep dreaming. And most importantly, never lose sight of the person you want to be. I’m so excited to be you.

With love and anticipation,

Your Past Self (August 2025)